Iris Lind Avery

Iris Lind Avery, also known as Momma Avery, passed away on March 12, 2024, at the age of 66

in Gastonia, NC. She was a beloved wife, mother, sister, grandmother, aunt, cousin, and high

school teacher. Momma Avery never met a stranger and showed unconditional love to everyone

she met. She had a passion for crafting, decorating her home for each season, baking, going to

the movies, and shopping. Her students knew she was always there for them, no matter the

circumstance. She was the true definition of showing unconditional love. 

Momma Avery was a proud Army spouse of 22 years and a retired schoolteacher with over 20

years of experience, earning the title of "Teacher of the Year" twice. She was graduated from

Troy University, Alabama, with a bachelor’s degree in education and a minor in Psychology. She

was a long-time member of First United Methodist Church of Gastonia. 

She is survived by: her husband of 41 years, Paul Hadden Avery, Jr.; her sister, Cherise Coe

Vaughn; her three children, Ashley Lind LaCourse (Jason), Christopher Aaron Avery (Lauren),

and Abigail Lind Carter (Madison); and her grandchildren, Addison, Elora, Bryson, Hermione,

and Jacob. Preceding her in death are her parents, Clyde Hillary and Jennie Lind Coe. 

A memorial service in honor of Momma Avery will take place on Saturday. March 23rd at 10:30

am at First United Methodist Church (FUMC), 190 East Franklin Blvd, Gastonia, NC, followed

by fellowship and refreshments in Gunter Hall, FUMC. In lieu of flowers and in honor of

Momma Avery's passion for education and teaching, donations can be made to the FUMC

Scholarship Fund, PO Box 218, Gastonia, NC, 28053, or drop off your favorite unused children's

book to your local elementary school (she would always sign and date the inside cover.)