Bette Moore Baum Chesapeake, Virginia Obituary

Bette Moore Baum

<p><br></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p>Bette Jo was born in Roanoke, VA to Frank Lester Charlotte (nee Watts) Moore. During the Depression,&nbsp;Bette Jo’s family (including older sister Barbara, younger brothers Henry and Frank) lived with Pa (Henry&nbsp;Brainard) and Nettie Watts, Grandparents.</p><p><br></p><p>Her family moved to the Alexander Park section of Portsmouth, VA when the Federal Government&nbsp;needed Bette Jo’s father as a machinist for Navy ship building. Bette Jo’s mother Charlotte was asked to&nbsp;teach school.<br></p><p><br></p><p>After graduating from Alexander Park High school, Bette Jo took the train from Norfolk to Blacksburg to&nbsp;attend Radford College, which had a relationship with Virginia Polytechnical Institute. Wesley was in the&nbsp;back of the train car with a group of Tech boys. Bette Jo was the last girl in the car as the girls had&nbsp;departed at various stops along the way. Bette Jo was sitting alone, Wesley came forward in the train&nbsp;car and asked, “Is this seat taken?” Thus began their lifelong romance. Bette Jo and Wesley married&nbsp;when she was 19 years old, and Wesley was 20 years old upon his graduation from VPI.<br></p><p><br></p><p>Wes Junior was born in 1949. Eric, Jonathan, Bradley, Glenn, Stephanie, and Melinda blessed Wesley&nbsp;and Bette Jo great grandchildren: Eric’s children are Amanda, Cheyenne and Tristan; Jonathan’s children&nbsp;are Priscilla, Brenda, Nicole and Edgard; Bradley and Krista’s children are Devyn, Bradley, Jack, Charles (son) Elias Matthew Baum; Glenn’s sons are Elijah, Corden, Stephanie and Dustin Ayers’ children are&nbsp;Nate, Nick, Zack, Sam and Oliver; Melinda and Matthew Summit’s children are Aiden, Haeley, Cayla, and&nbsp;Madison.<br></p><p><br></p><p>Even though Bette Jo and Wesley loved their Orlando Bible Fellowship Church, they decided to move to&nbsp;Moyock, NC in 1997 so they could be near Wesley’s brothers’ families: John and Sandra Baum and Clark&nbsp;and Shirley Baum as well as Bette Jo’s brother’s family Frank and Janice Moore. God, family and country&nbsp;was the center of Bette Jo and Wesley’s lives.</p><p><br></p><p>Nieces, nephews, cousins and their children and their children filled their home on Currituck Sound with&nbsp;love and joy. Bette Jo’s niece Debbie (Moore) and David Byrum their daughter Cassandra (Byrum) and&nbsp;James Lewis and Cassie’s children Hailey, Ashley and Mason Caldwell. Great nephew Derek and Heather&nbsp;Byrum and sons JD, Ryan and Brody.<br></p><p><br></p><p>Nephew Buddy and Robin Moore and great niece Charlotte (Moore) and Mat Rutherford, great nephew Trey and Shelby Moore and their daughter Cora and great nephew Blake Moore.<br></p><p><br></p><p>Nephew Kenny and Sandra Moore and great niece Melissa (Moore) and Heath Hodges and their children&nbsp;Harper and Tucker as well as great niece Aubrey (Moore) and Brad Cagle and their children Wyatt and&nbsp;Chloe and great niece Tiffany (Moore) and Joshua King and daughter Kamryn.<br></p><p><br></p><p>Bette Jo’s niece is Karen Moore, who always gave Bette Jo the best back scratches. Bette Jo referred to&nbsp;Frank’s widow Janice (Ladd) Moore as “My best friend.” When Bette Jo’s family lived in Alexander Park,&nbsp;Janice knew Bette Jo’s family. Charlotte (Bette Jo’s mother) taught school and Janice (10 years younger&nbsp;than Bette Jo) was in Charlotte’s class. Frank Moore and Janice Ladd grew up and married, the Lord&nbsp;blessed them with four beautiful children, eight lovely grandchildren, 11 precious great grandchildren&nbsp;and one great-great granddaughter (most were able to celebrate last Thanksgiving with Bette Jo in her&nbsp;home on the Currituck Sound.</p><p><br></p><p>Wesley and Bette Jo hosted annual Baum Family Reunions, which included extended family and many&nbsp;friends in Blackwater and across the country.<br></p><p><br></p><p>John and Sandra Baum. John’s children include: Charlene Baum Pullias, Lance Baum, Toni Baum&nbsp;Stovall, Forest Baum (deceased), and Hugh Baum.</p><p><br></p><p>Marshall (Wesley’s brother) and Liza Baum’s children David Baum, Greg Baum, Lisa (Baum) Rudick and&nbsp;her sons Kyle and Timothy.</p><p>Clark (Wesley’s brother)and Shirley Baum’s children are Michael and Sharon Baum parents of Jack, Brian&nbsp;and Carly and Stephanie (Baum) and Phil Peacock parents of Brittany (Peacock) and Kyle Bennett,&nbsp;Lauren (Peacock) and Aubrey Hummer and Krissy Peacock.</p><p><br></p><p>Charlotte (Baum) and Lister Ives’ children are Bo, Rick and Ron. Ron and Joan Baum have two children,&nbsp;which attended many reunions as little children: Anthony Ives and Alison Ives Wenderoff.<br></p><p>Bette Jo’s sister Barbara “Bobbie” lived in Alexander Park, where she met and married Robert Harper.&nbsp;They had five children, Susan, Bob, Sheri, David and Mary Beth.&nbsp; Momma love her sister Bette Jo!&nbsp; We&nbsp;kids always used to say, “Nobody’s perfect …&nbsp; except our Aunt Bette!!</p><p></p><p><br></p><p>Susan and Dave McLeay’s children include Kevin (wife Faye), Marc (wife Erin), Michael (wife Laura) and&nbsp;Stephen (wife Jordan), and have served as parents to Neil (wife Melissa).&nbsp; They have nine grandchildren,&nbsp;Mason, Brennan, Finn, Garrison, Hudson, Vivian, Olivia, Sophie and Davis.<br></p><p></p><p><br></p><p>Bob and Jane Harper’s children include Jacob and Michelle, and Becki.&nbsp; They have four grandchildren,&nbsp;Lily, Kellan, Isaac and Amelia.</p><p></p><p><br></p><p>Sheri McGuinness (passed away in 2021) has four children, Joe (wife Calais), Bobby (passed away), Katie&nbsp;(husband Josh) and Susie (husband Jeff).&nbsp; Sheri has five grandchildren (Logan, Brodie, Carter, Ellie, Owen&nbsp;and Reagan) and the sixth due in March.</p><p></p><p>David and Mary Harper passed away leaving no children.</p><p></p><p>Our family is most grateful that our parents taught us of Jesus and the gift of grace and salvation.&nbsp; We&nbsp;will be together again!</p><p><br></p><p>The funeral service will be conducted at 11:00 am Saturday, March 18, 2023 at Black Water Baptist Church, 6000 Blackwater Road in Virginia Beach. Interment will follow in the church&nbsp; cemetery. Friends are invited to share memories and sign the online guestbook at www.omanfh.com.&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p><iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" scrolling="no" src="https://player.memoryshare.com/memoryshare/video/bettejo-baum-8091583" class="embed-responsive-item"></iframe></p>
June 7, 1929 - March 3, 202306/07/192903/03/2023
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Donna Benson
March 19, 2023
From the minute I met Bettyjo I loved her. She was warm and kind and full of wisdom and grace.
You see I had gone over to Wesley and BettyJo's to give them a price to clean their home. I kept that house clean for 17 years, but the love I received from Bettyjo, I will nev...
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Ron Ives
March 17, 2023
Bette Jo and Wesley are together again, praise the Lord!

I will miss them greatly as they treated me like royalty on every visit. Especially the Orlando visits where I got to know Bette Jo's Dad.

May God Bless and I will see you again in Paradise.