Robert Mawson Dobbs Ferry, New York Obituary

Robert Mawson

Robert Mawson, a resident of Hastings on Hudson for 29 years, died on November 22. He was born in County Durham in the northeast of England in August 1943. He had a colorful life and career, starting from work in the coal mine at 15, through being a nuclear weapons specialist in the British Artillery, to teaching meditation as a Buddhist monk in Thailand. To escape work in the coalmine, he became a boy soldier in the British Army and got his education there. He was stationed in Menden, Germany with the British Army of the Rhine from 1961 to 1968, during the Cold War. He learned the language and became part of the local community. At the time of the Cuban Missile Crisis October 1962, he was prepared to launch a nuclear weapon as soon as word was received from President John F. Kennedy. Thankfully, that word never came. He returned to the U.K. and, as Regimental Sergeant Major and taught cadets at the Royal Military Academy at Sandhurst. He was then stationed with the Royal Artillery at Larkhill close to Salisbury Plain, where he gazed at Stonehenge every morning. Having learned of a heart problem from the army doctors, he was told that he would not be able to advance in the army. They sent him to Glasgow with his Danish wife, Karen Lassen, where he served as an army recruiter. He did not like the "desk job", so left the army and began his career as a salesperson for a Danish company, Hugo Kragh Design. He and his wife had one daughter, Katia, who still lives in Denmark with her husband Henrik and four sons, Martin, Henrik, Kasper and Glenn. Robert and Karen divorced in 1974. In 1974, at the age of 31, he was rushed to the hospital for open-heart surgery, where the Danish doctors installed two synthetic heart valves and gave him five years to live if he lived a sedentary life. He defied the doctors and started working for a British firm Trent 300, Ltd. in Nottingham, England. He traveled widely in Northern Europe and communed with the Inuit in Greenland, lived in the Middle East Iran and Iraq and Asia Hong Kong and Southeast Asia during the next decade. One of his favorite spots was Thailand, where he set up a marketing team for the British firm. In 1983 he came to New York to sell a systems contract for his company to the United Nations. In the process of trying to submit all the proper documents, he met Marcia Brewster, an officer in the Sustainable Development Division, who had previously lived in Thailand for 10 years. The two married in 1984 and had twin sons, Matthew and Marshall, in 1986. Keeping the Thailand connection alive, they had a Thai nanny during the early years of their boys' lives. Robert also was a famous "Mr. Mom" around the Co-op Nursery in Hastings, which his sons attended when they were three years old. During this period he was introduced to a form of meditation through the Thai nanny. His wife Marcia was reassigned to the UN regional commission for Asia and the Pacific in Bangkok in 1990, so the family relocated to Thailand, where both Robert and Marcia had fond memories. It was a wonderful time in their lives and they enjoyed their country home on the West coast of Thailand close to Krabi. They returned to Hastings in 1993 where their sons went through the Hastings school system. Robert continued working as a salesperson and taking care of his sons. He also continued his interest in meditation. While studying and completing various meditation retreats, he was discovered as someone who exceptionally excelled in an advanced form of meditation, known in the Buddhist meditation world as Dhammak
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Regina Kelly Houghteling
May 4, 2017
Dear Marcia, Matthew, Marshal, I just heard that Bob died last week and I wish to express my condolences to the three of you. Bob lived a life full enough for a dozen men and I know that during the years when the Houghtelings and Mawsons saw more of each other, his stori... Continue Reading
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Chris Bub Cardi
May 4, 2017
What a wonderful man to have known and get to know! He truly has touched many people throughout his life, and had a gifted way of speaking to them -- teaching them the power of meditation. He made an impression with me the first time I met him, and we spoke for almost an... Continue Reading
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Barbara Wolkowitz
May 4, 2017
Dear Marcia, Mathew, and Marshall, I was so sorry to hear from Daniel that Bob had died last week. I knew from Clare and Claude that he had been very ill again and fighting to get well. I just thought he would prove the negative predictions wrong again. I am so sorry I d... Continue Reading
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Abby Waldorf
May 4, 2017
Dear Marcia, Matt and Marshall,I feel so lucky to have met Bob in 2012 on a short visit to NYC. I've never been inside a hospital room that felt so at peace and was filled with so much love. He has clearly left an incredible legacy behind. My mother and I are sending our... Continue Reading
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Dhana Solish
May 4, 2017
I was moved by Bob's obituary, and enjoyed meeting him in the 80's, when the boys were young. He clearly was a very interesting person. My condolences--Dhana
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Annbritt Kjr
May 4, 2017
Dear Marcia, Mathew, and Marshall,I'm sorry to hear you lost your husband and father.I knew Bob from the time when he was living in Denmark.He was a friend to my mother, Esther Kjr, who wasmarried to Ed Hyde.I was only a child when he was living in Denmark but oneof the ... Continue Reading
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Dwaila
May 4, 2017
To you all my blessings. Bob was a great joy for many and I am sure he is now happily looking over all of us.
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kusum athukorala
May 4, 2017
Dear Marcia,What a wonderfully fulfilling and inspirational life . He seems to have been living more than one life . My thoughts are with you in your moments of sadnessKusum
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Butch Boswell
May 4, 2017
Rest in Peace Brother, you always made me smile. Thanks for making this world a better place. You too Marcia.