Ardith Joan Whitmore BILLINGS, Montana Obituary

Ardith Joan Whitmore

Obituary for Ardith J. Whitmore<br><br>On Labor Day September 6, 2021 the Heavens welcomed a beautiful, gracious woman!<br>Ardith J. Whitmore, 90, left this earthly plain with her dedicated, loving son David by her side holding her hand. They were very close. Like two peas in a pod. Ardith suffered the effects of dementia in her final years, however she was able to live in her own home with her family until the end. <br><br>Ardith was born December 3, 1930 to Joseph and Louise Zuncich in Great Falls, MT. She lived and grew up in Great Falls, graduating from Great Falls High School. She was active in ice skating, majorettes and other school activities. Following graduation she went to work at the Great Falls National Bank. Her banking experience became a springboard for her career in bookkeeping and ultimately as a business owner.<br><br>Ardith met Jack M. Jacobs at the Brass Rail in Great Falls. The Brass Rail was a local spot where the GIs from Malmstrom Air Force Base would frequent. Jack was in the U.S. Air Force and he swept Ardith off her feet. They were married on September 20, 1953 at Fort Monmouth, New Jersey. That is where Jack’s family lived. They settled in Neptune, New Jersey. From this marriage three children were born: Rosalyn 1955; Randolph 1956 and David 1958. Ardith worked at the family restaurant in Long Branch.<br>The family came back to Great Falls and then migrated to Arcadia, California for a period of time. After 11 years of marriage Jack and Ardith divorced. Ardith and the children came back to Great Falls.<br><br>Ardith met Charles L. Whitmore in Great Falls and they were married May 27, 1966. Charles was in the U.S. Marine Corps during the Korean War. The family moved to Billings in 1967. After arriving in Billings, Charles adopted the three children and this new union was created. Charles and Ardith lived the American Dream! Both came from humble beginnings, hard working families that survived the Great Depression. Together they worked hard, built a home, created and ran a successful business, Yellowstone Cleaning Company. Charles built the cleaning contracts and Ardith did all the bookkeeping along with payroll. It was a well oiled team and son David came on board when Charles’ health started to fail. Charles and Ardith raised the family, opened their home to friends and family for fabulous meals and fellowship and they travelled the world!<br><br>The family was a dog loving family. Ardith was active in the Yellowstone Valley Kennel Club where she taught AKC obedience classes. Charles and Ardith bred and raised Great Danes. Ardith would show her dogs at the local YVKC dog shows. Her first female Great Dane, Suzie, won reserve best in breed.<br><br>Charles and Ardith were great sports fans, especially hockey. They supported the Billings Bighorns as season ticket holders. They were also billets with players living in the family home during the hockey season.<br>Ardith was an instrumental leader and coordinator for the Friendship Force in Billings. The Friendship Force coordinated travel of folks from Montana to other countries around the world where they would offer hospitality to the visitors. They shared their homes, meals and culture. Folks from other countries also travelled to Montana. Charles and Ardith were blessed to have been able to travel the world and meet many folks, some becoming lifelong friendships!<br><br>Some of Ardith’s favorite times were spent with her granddaughter Jennifer. When Jen was just 3 years old Ardith took her skiing and they spent many weekends at the cabin in Red Lodge. Ardith was a great skier and along with her girlfriends spent lots of time on the slopes of Red Lodge Mountain.<br><br>Ardith was a fabulous cook, baker and decorator. Holidays were special, the house was always decorated and the grandkids were part of the festivities! Easter egg dying extravaganzas with hundreds of eggs dyed and hidden in the yard waiting to be found! Thanksgiving, with plenty of turkey, all the trimmings, Ardith’s special dressing and gravy never matched by anyone and beautiful desserts. Christmas was the pinnacle. The home was beautifully decorated. Ardith baked in excess of 150 dozen beautifully decorated cookies along with fudge and divinity. She would make up trays of cookies, fudge and divinity that her and Charles would deliver to the businesses they serviced as a thank you for their business. There was never a dull moment!<br><br>Ardith lived a life well lived, blessed with talent, beauty, family and friends. Ardith was preceded in death by her parents, her brother Joel Zuncich and her husband Charles Whitmore. Ardith is survived by her sister Gloria Franz in Great Falls, her sons David Whitmore, Randy (Janet) Whitmore and his children: Samantha Whitmore Paddock, and R.C. Whitmore; her daughter Rosalyn (Richard) Cottrill. Grandaughter Jennifer Cottrill, grandson Derek Cottrill, his wife Courtney and their children Camden Cottrill and Cohen Barnhart. Grandson Cale Cottrill and his children Nykylis, Chevy, Carsyn and Easton Cottrill.<br><br>This very recent photo of Mom was taken July 14, 2021 while she was playing Yahtzee with her daughter Rosalyn. A private family graveside service was held with interment at Smith’s West in Billings, MT. If you would like you may leave condolences at www.smithfuneralchapels.com<br>
December 3, 1930 - September 6, 202112/03/193009/06/2021
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David A Whitmore
June 18, 2022
My dear sweet Mother,
Been almost 2 months since I came by to visit you in this format. My life is a disaster thanks to all those folks that made your final weeks such a tragic event. Oh God Mom I am so sorry for what happened to you. Getting closer to joining you and Da...
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David A Whitmore
April 20, 2022
My dear sweet Mother,
Oh my goodness it has been 4 weeks and 2 days Mom since I last wrote. Please forgive me. We just had Palm Sunday and then Easter Sunday and it was very sad for me. I put some nice Easter decorations in the vase for you and Dad for Easter Sunday. Pu...
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David A Whitmore
March 21, 2022
My dear sweet Mother,
It has been exactly 3 weeks since I last wrote. I continue to come out often to visit. I write it down in the book. Was out this morning around 10 am. I put some nice new flowers in the vase being that today is the first full day of spring. I got th...
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David A Whitmore
February 28, 2022
My dear sweet Mother,
It has been exactly 4 weeks since I last wrote. It will soon be 6 months since we were split up and the pain is still very profound. So since the last time when I wrote on 1/31/2022 I have been out to the gravesite many times. Feb.1, Feb.2, I swept ...
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David A Whitmore
January 31, 2022
My dear sweet Mother,
Today is 21 weeks since we were split up and I am still as sad since day one. I did come out today at 1 pm. It was quite windy. I brought some different flowers to put in the vase. When I arrived, I decided to just pull what was in the vase and turn...
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David A Whitmore
January 24, 2022
My dear sweet Mother,
Another week has gone by without you here at the house with me and it is very painful. I came out to the grave this morning at 9:45 am and just hung out for a while. The snow is all gone as the weather has been fairly mild. This week will also be ra...
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David A Whitmore
January 17, 2022
My dear sweet Mother,
Another week has gone by and you are still missed more than ever. I came out to the grave this morning at about 9:30. I took the Christmas decorations out of the vase and put in Red, White, and Blue flowers along with the US flag because today is M....
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David A Whitmore
January 10, 2022
My dear sweet Mother,
Another week has come and gone and I miss you so very much. Last week was a cold week especially Wednesday and Thursday. Thursday the well pump froze up and I had to call somebody to unthaw it. That was the first time in 50 years when that happened....
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David A Whitmore
January 4, 2022
My dear sweet Mother,
I came out yesterday morning to the gravesite at 10 am. The wind had blown snow around, but I did get the markers and everything all swept off for you. I decided to pick up some of the decorations that was there for the Christmas season. I was even ...
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David A Whitmore
January 2, 2022
My dear sweet Mother,
Just finished up cleaning in your bedroom and Dad's old bedroom. I wanted to tell you about the Compassus hospice that your doctor, doctor Malters assigned to you. I wrote a letter to Katherine at Compassus and questioned the morphine usage that end...
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David A Whitmore
February 14, 2023
The line actually was, " thanks to this hospice and Kathy I was directed to kill my dear sweet Mother and I did".