Carla A. Duff Houlton, Maine Obituary

Carla A. Duff

Carla A. Duff Farrell, 57, passed away Thursday, November 12, 2020 in Bangor. She was born March 30, 1963, in Houlton, the daughter of Carl and Mildred (Cassidy) Duff.

Carla had a kind, giving heart and selflessly cared for any family member or friend who needed assistance with meals, medical care or emotional support.  She was a dedicated caregiver to the residents and tenants at Madigan Estates and the Houlton Regional Hospital. Always eager to help others with a listening ear, a meal, an errand, or a task, her nurturing spirit would find her stretched thin, but most would never know it. Carla’s kindness and intuitive nature made her easy to love, and people she loved never navigated a rough road alone because Carla was always there. She was a remarkable wife, sister, aunt, daughter and friend.  She was modest about her vocal talent but enjoyed singing at weddings and with several musical groups in the Houlton area.  Carla especially loved getting all her family together to have a feast in "Carl's Shack" built for her dad, Carl's, fun family gatherings.  "Aunt Larla" loved to dote on all her nieces and nephews and enjoyed watching them grow as she spoiled them a little!  With so much love to give, Carla has left her beloved family and friends with an ache in our hearts, but we are thankfully blessed for having had her in our lives. The ache will never heal, for her selflessness cannot be matched. She will be forever missed.  Carla is survived by her husband, Laurel Farrell. She also leaves behind four brothers, Jim Duff and his wife Eloise of Loxley; Tom Duff and his wife Nancy of Houlton; Dale Duff and his wife Nora of Bangor; and Peter Duff of Bangor. Carla also leaves behind three special aunts: Gail Duff of Hodgdon, Audrey Anderson of South Portland, Sharon Kinney and her husband Larry of Florida along with several cousins, nieces, nephews, and friends. In addition to her parents, Carl and Mildred, she was predeceased by her brother, Dana Duff, and her grandparents, Madeline and John Cassidy, and Olive and Donald Duff.

A graveside service for family and friends will be held November 18 at 11:00 a.m. at the East Hodgdon Cemetery. Arrangements in care of Dunn Funeral Home 11 Park St. Houlton, ME 04730. Online condolences may be expressed on the Tribute Wall at: www.dunnfuneral.com
March 30, 1963 - November 12, 202003/30/196311/12/2020
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Beth Adams
November 29, 2020
Carla sang beautifully at my wedding 40 years ago. I ran into her a few years ago while visiting a resident at Madigan Estates and was so sorry to hear of her recent passing. She was such a nice person and I have fond memories of her beautiful singing voice. My condolenc... Continue Reading
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Diane Flewelling
November 19, 2020
Carla was one of a kind.....we were first cousins and when I became handicapped and wheelchair bound and a patient at Madigan Estates, Carla always spoke, stopped to see if I needed anything....God gained a beautiful Angel...you will be missed....Diane Duff Flewelling
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Tim Gillotti
November 18, 2020
God must have needed another shining light and wonderful voice up there with him. Our great loss. Former band mate Tim Gillotti
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Annette Boutilier
November 17, 2020
The loss of Carla in all of our lives will leave a huge hole. Yet when I think of her I laugh and smile at the memories she left me with.

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Jonathan Duff
November 16, 2020
Rest in peace, Aunt Carla. Thank you for every birthday card for the last 40 years. You never missed one. I really appreciate it. I know the family is in good hands in heaven now that you're there.
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Danita Murchison Hunt
November 16, 2020
Carla was our neighbor when we were all kids. We had a little band we called the Sunbeams and we would put on little shows for neighbors. We had alot of fun growing up with Carla. Sad to hear she passed, too soon.
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doris sherman
November 16, 2020
I met Carla years ago while working at the hospital,, she was always someone who made you feel good just by meeting her.. she will leave a huge void and my prayers are with her family.
Michael Anderson
November 16, 2020
Our deepest condolences to Larry Farrell and all of the family. Carla was such a joy to Larry. Her kindness and love will be missed. Love Mike and Linda
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Judy & Bud Reid
November 15, 2020
Jim, Tommy, Dale and Peter. Our deepest sympathy in the loss of your wonderful sister. We are so sorry for the family.
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Tim Humphrey
November 16, 2020
May you sing for all the angels Carla. From an old friend and bandmate. We love you.
Becky Cole
November 15, 2020
RIP Carla.. you will be missed so much, thoughts and prayers to the family. 💔💔