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Barbara Ann Wilde Obituary

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Barbara Ann Wilde

Pompton Plains, New Jersey

August 13, 1957 - April 27, 2025

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Barbara Ann Wilde Obituary

Fierce, strong-willed, and wildly independent

Are only some of the words

That best describe

Barbara Wilde.


She entered the world

Wrinkly and pink

Having stayed in utero longer than anticipated

Establishing even then that she would live

The way she saw fit.


Her childhood was filled

With stories of stubbornness,

Strong-willed independence

And unwavering confidence

Necessary gifts

Bestowed upon her.


Throughout her life

Struggle and strife

Always lurked nearby

Continuously challenging

Her unwavering fortitude.

She wore those hardships

with quiet strength

Still able to share

Compassion and grace

With those in need.


With ferocity,

Barbara raised her girls

Doing everything

And anything

To ensure their well-being

Paving pathways out of rubble

Granting access to dreams

She never got to dream

Herself.


On April 27, 2025

Strong Wilde women

Surrounded Barbara

Creating a space

Filled with love and tenderness

Promising devotion

To her girls and their babies

Allowing her to rest.



Visitation will be held Friday from 12-2 pm at Scanlan's, with a 2 pm service finalizing the visitation period. Cremation will be private.


In lieu of flowers, donations to the Lupus Foundation of America or the National Multiple Sclerosis Society would be greatly appreciated by the family.


To plant a beautiful memorial tree in memory of Barbara, please visit our Tree Store.

Fierce, strong-willed, and wildly independent

Are only some of the words

That best describe

Barbara Wilde.


She entered the world

Wrinkly and pink

Having stayed in utero longer than anticipated

Establishing even then that she would live

The way she saw fit.


Her childhood was filled

With stories of stubbornness,

Strong-willed independence

And unwavering confidence

Necessary gifts

Bestowed upon her.


Throughout her life

Struggle and strife

Always lurked nearby

Continuously challenging

Her unwavering fortitude.

She wore those hardships

with quiet strength

Still able to share

Compassion and grace

With those in need.


With ferocity,

Barbara raised her girls

Doing everything

And anything

To ensure their well-being

Paving pathways out of rubble

Granting access to dreams

She never got to dream

Herself.


On April 27, 2025

Strong Wilde women

Surrounded Barbara

Creating a space

Filled with love and tenderness

Promising devotion

To her girls and their babies

Allowing her to rest.



Visitation will be held Friday from 12-2 pm at Scanlan's, with a 2 pm service finalizing the visitation period. Cremation will be private.


In lieu of flowers, donations to the Lupus Foundation of America or the National Multiple Sclerosis Society would be greatly appreciated by the family.


To plant a beautiful memorial tree in memory of Barbara, please visit our Tree Store.

Events

Visitation

Friday, May 2, 2025

12:00 pm - 2:00 pm

Scanlan's

781 Newark Pompton Turnpike Pompton Plains, NJ 07444

Funeral Service

Friday, May 2, 2025

2:00 pm - 3:00 pm

Scanlan's

781 Newark Pompton Turnpike Pompton Plains, NJ 07444