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Michael J. Nelson Obituary

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Michael J. Nelson

Spanaway, Washington

June 11, 1968 - April 23, 2025

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Michael J. Nelson Obituary

Obituary for Michael James Nelson


It is with heavy hearts and profound love that we announce the passing of Michael James Nelson, an extraordinary son, brother, husband, father, and friend, who entered eternal rest on April 23, 2025, at the age of 56.


Born on June 11, 1968, in Tacoma, Washington, to Robert James Nelson and Karen Schneider Nelson, Michael lived a life defined by kindness, integrity, unwavering faith, and a deep love for his family and friends. Michael graduated from Franklin Pierce High School in 1987 and went on to earn his degree in Political Science from Central Washington University in 1991.


Michael met the love of his life, Tami League Nelson, at Green River Community College in 1988. Their bond quickly grew strong, and they were married on March 21, 1992, sharing 33 beautiful years of marriage filled with laughter, partnership, and steadfast devotion. Together, they built a home full of warmth, faith, and countless cherished memories.


As a father, Michael was a steady and guiding light for his sons, Jacob Foster Nelson and James Kenneth Nelson. He led by example, teaching them the values of hard work, compassion, perseverance, and unconditional love. His pride in Jacob and James was boundless, and his encouragement and gentle wisdom shaped their lives profoundly.


Professionally, Michael built a successful and fulfilling career in Human Resources. He was deeply respected for his integrity, compassion, and natural leadership. Throughout his career, he prided himself on advancing the leadership skills and talents of those he served, always seeking to encourage, empower, and uplift others. For many years, Michael was a member of the Board of Directors for Junior Achievement of the South Puget Sound Region. His impact on those he mentored continues to ripple far beyond his professional life.


Michael had an extraordinary gift for making others feel truly seen and heard. He listened deeply — with patience, kindness, and genuine interest — making each person who crossed his path feel valued and special. His friendships were lifelong and sincere, built on trust, loyalty, and his remarkable ability to lift others up simply by being himself.


Michael’s strong faith was the foundation of his life. It guided his actions, strengthened him through life’s challenges, and shaped the way he loved and served others. He was a powerful example of what it means to walk humbly and faithfully in God’s grace.


Michael is survived by his beloved wife, Tami League Nelson; his sons, Jacob Foster Nelson (Taylynn Twiggs) and James Kenneth Nelson (Genevieve Buchanan); his parents, Robert and Karen Nelson; his sister, Caroline Calapp (Kenton); his mother-in-law, Judy League; his niece, Shauna Lammi (Rikki), his nephews, Bryan Dailey and Mitchell Dailey (Kami); his step-niece, Jennifer Darling (Troy); his great-nephew, Henry and many extended family members and dear friends whose lives were made brighter by knowing him. He was also known as “Uncle Mike” to many others who adored him.


Michael was preceded in death by his father-in-law, Kenneth League, and his brother-in-law, Jason League.

A Celebration of Life service honoring Michael will be held on May 10, 2025, at 11:00 AM at The Lutheran Church of St. Paul, with a reception to follow. All who knew and loved him are warmly invited to gather in remembrance and gratitude for his remarkable life.


In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made in Michael’s memory to Junior Achievement of Washington - South Puget Sound Region or The Lutheran Church of St. Paul.


Though Michael’s earthly journey has ended, the love, faith, and kindness he shared will live on in all who were blessed to know him. Michael is laid to rest at Fir Lane Memorial Park in Spanaway, Washington. He leaves behind a legacy of grace, compassion, and joy — a life well-lived and deeply loved.

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Obituary for Michael James Nelson


It is with heavy hearts and profound love that we announce the passing of Michael James Nelson, an extraordinary son, brother, husband, father, and friend, who entered eternal rest on April 23, 2025, at the age of 56.


Born on June 11, 1968, in Tacoma, Washington, to Robert James

Events

Graveside Service

Friday, May 9, 2025

2:00 pm

Fir Lane Memorial Park

924 176th. St. E. Spanaway, WA 98387

Celebration of Life

Saturday, May 10, 2025

11:00 am

The Lutheran Church of St Paul

22419 108th Ave E Graham, WA 98338

Final Resting Place

Fir Lane Memorial Park & Funeral Home

924 E. 176th. St. Spanaway, WA 98387