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Thomas J Napolitano Obituary

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Thomas J Napolitano

Keyport, New Jersey

October 5, 1948 - April 23, 2025

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Thomas J Napolitano Obituary

Thomas J. Napolitano, 76, of Holmdel, NJ, passed away peacefully at home on Wednesday, April 23rd, surrounded by his loving family.


Born in Montclair, NJ, on October 5, 1948, Tom grew up in Holmdel, where he spent most of his life. He attended college in Miami, Florida, and later returned to New Jersey to build a life centered around family, friendship, and community.


Tom was the proud owner of TJN Painting in Holmdel, earning a reputation for his hard work, honesty, and dedication. Beyond his work, it was Tom’s vibrant spirit that left a lasting impression. Whether it was the sound of classic rock playing, a Yankee game on the tv, a good meal on the table, or the company of friends and family, Tom believed those simple joys made for the perfect night. Known for his funny personality and big heart, he made friends wherever he went and was always ready to lend a hand to anyone in need.


Tom’s greatest joy was his family. He was the devoted husband of the late Abby Napolitano, and later, Alberta Romaniello, his loving wife of the past 18 years. He leaves behind his son Jason Napolitano with his wife Janet and their children, Jaxon and Jasmine, and his daughter Jaimee Jagger with her husband TJ and their children, Alexa and Peyton, all of whom he loved so deeply.


Family and friends are invited to pay their respects on Wednesday, April 30th, from 2 PM to 4 PM and 7 PM to 9 PM at Day Funeral Home in Keyport, NJ. Visitation will continue on Thursday, May 1st, from 10 AM to 11 AM, followed by a funeral service at 11 AM. Entombment will follow at Holmdel Cemetery, Holmdel, NJ.


Memorial donations can be made to the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society to help find a cure. Donations can be made online at https://www.lls.org

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Thomas J. Napolitano, 76, of Holmdel, NJ, passed away peacefully at home on Wednesday, April 23rd, surrounded by his loving family.


Born in Montclair, NJ, on October 5, 1948, Tom grew up in Holmdel, where he spent most of his life. He attended college in Miami, Florida, and later returned to New Jersey to build a life centered a

Events

Visitation

Wednesday, April 30, 2025

2:00 pm - 4:00 pm

Day Funeral Home

361 Maple Place Keyport, NJ 07735

Visitation

Wednesday, April 30, 2025

7:00 pm - 9:00 pm

Day Funeral Home

361 Maple Place Keyport, NJ 07735

Visitation

Thursday, May 1, 2025

10:00 am - 11:00 am

Day Funeral Home

361 Maple Place Keyport, NJ 07735

Service

Thursday, May 1, 2025

11:00 am - 11:30 am

Day Funeral Home

361 Maple Place Keyport, NJ 07735

Final Resting Place

Holmdel Cemetery

Holmdel Road Holmdel, NJ 07733