Harold Bennett Gilliam was a beacon of resilience and inspiration throughout his 93 years of a life well-lived. Born on the Fourth of July in 1931, in the humble town of Van Buren, Arkansas, he embodied the spirit of independence and courage from his very first breath, until he passed away peacefully on November 26, 2024, in Austin, Texas.
Harold's early years in Arkansas laid a foundation of strong family values and patriotism, which he carried into his adult life. Though his parents, Thomas Luther Gilliam, Jr. and Helen Roezella Gilliam, his sister Nadine Riley and son, Thomas Luther Gilliam, III, have predeceased him, their influence resonated in his daily actions. He is survived by devoted wife, Debbie Gilliam, sister, Betty Bradford, his children, Ellen Forsythe and Harold Tony Gilliam, stepchildren Robin Trochesset (and husband Duggan) and Richard Sanchez (and wife Adina), along with his cherished grandchildren Stephanie (husband-Chris), Skipper, Maizy, Sarah, Thomas, Travis, Austin, and Matthew, great-granddaughters Kennedy and Harper as well as a multitude of cousins, nephews and nieces will forever hold him in their hearts. Harold's furry companions, Gracie Lou Freebush and Randy Savage, also shared in the warmth of his love and care.
A man of honor and duty, Harold served his country with distinction in the United States Air Force, as a military policeman from 1952 to 1972. His service during the Korean and Vietnam Wars exemplified his unwavering commitment to the principles of freedom and democracy. Following his military career, Harold transitioned to civilian life with the same sense of purpose, becoming a trusted insurance agent with Allstate from 1973 to 1993. His office, at the corner of Williams Cannon and Manchaca, became a fixture in the community-a testament to his dedication and work ethic.
Even after a fulfilling career with Allstate, Harold's desire to serve led him to Harrell's Funeral Home and Superior Mortuary, where he continued to support families during their times of need. His compassion and empathy were a source of comfort to many.
Harold and his wife Debbie found spiritual solace and camaraderie at Bannockburn Baptist Church in South Austin, where they were loyal members since 1986. Their faith was a guiding light, not only in their personal lives but also as a source of strength they shared with others.
Harold's interests and passions were as varied as they were heartfelt. Golfing was a joy for him, and he took to the greens whenever his health permitted, enjoying the camaraderie and challenge of the game. His commitment to service shone through in his heart for prison ministry, where he and his friend Ivan Jameson spent time visiting inmates, offering hope and spiritual guidance.
Road trips across the United States with Debbie became treasured escapades, marking their map with memories at every famous landmark. These journeys were not merely vacations; they were explorations of a country he had served so faithfully, a testament to his adventurous spirit and love of discovery.
As we reflect upon Harold's remarkable life journey, let us celebrate his commitment to country, community and family. He will be profoundly missed by his friends and family but know he would want us to carry on with joy in our hearts and a smile on our face.
Visitation will be held Wednesday, December 4 at 1:00 p.m. at Harrell's Funeral Home, 4435 Frontier Trail, Austin, Texas followed by a memorial service at 2:00 p.m. A short graveside service will be held at Fort Sam Houston National Cemetery on December 11.
To send flowers to the family or plant a tree in memory of Harold, please visit our floral store.
Harold Bennett Gilliam was a beacon of resilience and inspiration throughout his 93 years of a life well-lived. Born on the Fourth of July in 1931, in the humble town of Van Buren, Arkansas, he embodied the spirit of independence and courage from his very first breath, until he passed away peacefully on November 26, 2024, in Austin, Texas.