Thomas Edward DeTolla Meredith, New Hampshire Obituary

Thomas Edward DeTolla

<p>Thomas Edward DeTolla, loving son, brother, cousin, nephew, grandchild, and friend to so many, unexpectedly passed away into the arms of God on Friday, January 20, 2023, at the young age of 22. </p><p><br></p><p>Thomas was born on March 13th, 2000, in Buffalo, New York to Edward and Kathleen DeTolla, his loving and devoted parents. Moving to Meredith, NH at the age of 5, Tommy always thought of the Lakes Region as his true home. A bright and very inquisitive child, Tommy was always fascinated by the world, impressing all who knew him with his wit, intelligence, creativity, and compassion for others. A great lover of sports, Tommy was active in many of Meredith’s youth leagues as a child, having a great passion for soccer, basketball, baseball and later, lacrosse. Attending the Inter-Lakes School District in Meredith, Tommy recently graduated from Inter-Lakes High School as a member of the class of 2018. Possessing great aspirations for the future, Tommy was a very conscientious student, becoming a member of the schools National Honors Society, while consistently pushing himself in all his studies.</p><p><br></p><p>Always a brave, curious, and adventurous person, Tommy was blessed with many great opportunities in his life. Joining the Rotary Youth Exchange program during his junior year of high school, Tommy relished the chance to travel and experience other cultures. Living and studying in Bergamo, Italy for 10 months in 2017, Tommy travelled widely around Europe. He was also blessed with spending a summer in Nicaragua, and was fluent in three languages: English, Italian, and Spanish. </p><p><br></p><p>Known as a natural leader with his empathy towards others, Tommy served as the President of his class during his sophomore year of high school, as well as Captain for the school’s Varsity Soccer Team, and Co-Captain of the Varsity Lacrosse Team. Also playing on the Varsity Basketball Team, Tommy was a vibrant presence in the school and town community, known and loved by all who met him. </p><p><br></p><p>Continuing his studies, Tommy attended the College of the Holy Cross in Worcester, Mass., recently graduating as a member of the Class of 2022, majoring in history with cum laude honors. Tommy continued his passion for sports as a member of the school’s club rugby team. Creating life-long bonds and friendships, Tommy found no greater comfort and joy in being in the company of his rugby friends. </p><p><br></p><p>Starting his career in July of 2022, Tommy was hired as a Sales Development Representative at Nasuni in the seaport of Boston. Consistently speaking of his new job and potential promotions, he was very excited for the future. </p><p><br></p><p>Thomas is survived by his parents, his brother, Joseph DeTolla, and his sister, Katelyn DeTolla, all of Laconia, NH. He is also survived by his paternal grandparents, Harold and Norma DeTolla of Riverhead, NY. He leaves behind numerous aunts, uncles, 23 first cousins, and many friends.</p><p><br></p><p>Calling hours will be held in the Mayhew Funeral home, Route #3 and #104, Meredith, on Sunday, Jan. 29th, from 1pm to 3pm. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated in Saint Charles Borromeo Catholic Church, 300 Route #25, Meredith, on Monday, Jan. 30th, at 11am. The Rev. Msgr. Gerald R. Belanger, Pastor, will be the celebrant. Burial will be held at the convenience of the family in Oakland Cemetery, Meredith.</p>
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Pamela Swords
February 2, 2023
Tommy was a wonderful dear friend to our son and exceptional young man. The Swords family is truly heartbroken over this loss.
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Anonymous
February 1, 2023
Remembered and Loved, as a brother - Holy Cross Rugby Class of 2018
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The Joyce Family
January 29, 2023
We are so sorry for your loss. We send our deepest condolences.
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Steph, James, Shelly, Ben, Charlie, Liam, Nola and GiGi
January 28, 2023
Ed, Kathy, Joe & Kate - We are sending so much love to all of you.
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Vander, Adrian, Sarah, and Kurt
January 26, 2023
Ed, Kathy, Joe, and Kate. We are truly sorry for your immense loss. Our deepest sympathies to all of you. With Love,
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Love your Kelly Cousins
January 26, 2023
Kathy, Ed, Joe & Kate, we are heartbroken for the loss of your wonderful Tommy. The Kellys sending you love, prayers & comfort. God Bless You.
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Anonymous
January 25, 2023
Words fall short of expressing our sorrow. Our thought and prayers are with Tommy, his family, and his friends.
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AnnMarie, Michael and Sarah Vermette
January 25, 2023
The Vermette family is at a loss of words. Praying for you, Tommy's loving soul and the Angel he is now. Hugs from Sarah, she will miss him dearly.
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Greg Judge
February 8, 2023
Our thoughts and prayers are with Thomas and the entire DeTolla family

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Ned Saliba
January 30, 2023
Tommy helped so many people in his life. Wishing you peace in this difficult time.

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Gabriele Nebel
January 28, 2023
We are heartbroken to hear of the sudden passing of Tommy, a fellow member of our big family of exchange student. Altough we did not get a chance to meet him, reading about him we got a sense of the smart, curios and kind man that that he was. In the name of the whole Ro... Continue Reading
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Manuela Gerosa RD2042 District Chair
January 28, 2023
Tommy was a wonderful exchange student in our district and made a lasting impression on all of us. On behalf of the friends from Rotary District 2042 and IMD, we extend our deepest sympathies and condolences to his family.
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Hannah Shafiei
January 26, 2023
This life is like a drop in the bucket compared to the life you’ll live alongside God in His Heaven. Rest In Peace Tommy. You were an amazing friend to me and I’ll never forget the time we spent together in Italy and exploring Europe with our fellow Rotary pals. We all m... Continue Reading
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Kurt D'Amico
January 26, 2023
We are all painfully heart-broken with the passing of such an amazing young man. Although called away from this earth too soon, there are few who have lived such a full and rewarding life. To Ed, Kathy, Joe, and Kate, may the wonderful daily memories of Tommy's immense p... Continue Reading
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Joe/Liz Rorech and Michele/Frank Auriemma
January 26, 2023
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

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Nancy McIver
January 26, 2023
Sending prayers of comfort to all that knew and loved him. He was a wonderful student in my class and a wonderful young man. 🙏🏻♥️
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Michael Rathgeber
January 25, 2023
Rest peacefully Tommy
You were one of the good guys for sure
Much sympathy and condolences to the family
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