Jay Allen Shady Marion, Indiana Obituary

Jay Allen Shady

Jay Allen Shady, 52, Marion, passed away at 11:08 pm on Monday, August 8, 2022, at IU Health University Hospital in Indianapolis. He was born in Muncie, Indiana, on Friday, May 1, 1970, to Donald and Judith (Ross) Shady. He was married to his loving wife, Nicole. Jay was a Business Systems Analyst throughout his career. He was a huge Pittsburgh Steelers and Cincinnati Reds fan, and he loved to build Lego sets. Jay was also a huge people person, who loved God, family, and church. He will be deeply missed by all who knew him. The family would like to give a special thank you to his supervisor at work--Susan. Jay is survived by his father, Donald Shady; wife, Nicole (Canten) Shady; daughters, Kayetlin Shady and Maggie (Jimmy) O'Connell of Fort Wayne; brother, Roger (Karin) Shady of NC; sister, Julie (Tim) Thompson of Poneto; several aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, and cousins; in-laws, Tom (Belinda) Canten of Marion; and faithful companions, Zeus and Mila. He was preceded in death by his mother, Judith Shady. Per Jay's wishes, there will be no public visitation or funeral service. Arrangements have been entrusted to Integrity Funeral Care, 2901 S. Washington St., Marion, IN. In lieu of flowers, the family is asking that you show kindness to someone else as Jay always did to others. Memories may be shared online at www.ifccares.com.
May 1, 1970 - August 8, 202205/01/197008/08/2022
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Hannah Lord Arbogast
August 16, 2022
Jay was always very kind to me. A loving father and husband, he was an example to many. Wishing Nicole and his girls peace and comfort in this time of loss, though I know they can rest assured that his soul was right with The Lord, which makes all the difference.
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patrick savage
August 13, 2022
Prayers for the family Jay was an awesome person. went to school with him and played football together. Gone too soon
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Diana Jacob
August 11, 2022
Prayers for peace and comfort. Always loved Jay's humor and smile. The Shady's all share that trait. May God bless each of you, trust in the Lord and he will help you through this. Love to each of you. Diana Jacob
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Phyllis Anderson
August 11, 2022
Prayers of comfort for the family. Jay was a good neighbour to Terry and I. I will miss seeing him out in the yard. 🙏🙏
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Linda Wilk
August 11, 2022
Kayetlin - my prayers are with you and your family as you remember the times you spent with your father and find comfort that he is in Heaven. Linda Wilk
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Mark Loveless
August 10, 2022
I always enjoyed working and talking with Jay. For a short time a small group of us met at lunch time to have a Bible Study and Jay was always insightful and had a great sense of humor. I can remember hearing him joking and he had a distinguished laugh that was contagi... Continue Reading
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Tami Crawford
August 10, 2022
I'm sorry to hear about this. He was always a nice person to work with.
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Becky Fansker
August 10, 2022
Jay was my pastor for many years. He was a good pastor!! Him and I disagreed on some things but we always got along. I would always tell him, you have the right to be wrong. He was most certainly a people person. And my memories of Jay was he loved his wife and daughter... Continue Reading
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Molly Storey
August 10, 2022
So very sorry to hear about Jay. He was such a kind person and easy to talk to. I have some special memories of Jay while growing up in Upland. Prayers to his family.
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