Anita Jo DuMarce Wheaton, Minnesota Obituary

Anita Jo DuMarce

<p><span style="font-size:16px;">Anita Jo DuMarce passed away on January 11, 2022 at her home in Wheaton, MN at the early age of 46. She had battled cancer for three years,and had recently been cancer free. She was surrounded by loved ones who will continue to honor her legacy by remembering her faith and follow through to live a better life.</span></p> <p><span style="font-size:16px;">A Remembrance Service will be held Monday, January 17, 2022 from 12:00 p.m. until 4:00 p.m.&nbsp; at the Peever Community Center in Peever, SD with Tasinagiwin Gill officiating.&nbsp; There will be a breakfast beginning at 10:00 a.m.</span></p> <p><span style="font-size:16px;">A viewing will be held on Saturday, January 15, 2022 from 7:00 p.m. until Midnight.&nbsp; A breakfast will be held on Sunday January 16, 2022 at 10:00 a.m. with a Naming Ceremony beginning at 2:00 p.m. and an all-night wake to follow.&nbsp; All services will be held at the Peever Community Center.</span></p> <p><span style="font-size:16px;">Pallbearers will be: Aurelio Lara-Ruiz, Inkpa Mani, Dave Haaland, Darus Elhers, Gary Elhers, Cody Klein, Chris Couillard and Robert Gill.&nbsp; Honorary Pallbearers will be: Jimmy Lindel, Jermy Lindel, Joseph Sobaszkiewicz, Simone DuMarce, Clifford DuMarce, Paul Mitteness, Zach Pryzmus and Tom Cameron.</span></p> <p><span style="font-size:16px;">Anita Jo Dumarce (Ruiz) was born on December 31, 1975 to Denise Ruiz and Joseph Sobaszkiewicz in South Saint Paul, Minnesota. She was raised up to the age of 9 by her Grandfather who she called Apa. From an early age he taught her the traditional Masea Maxica (Aztec) culture in Mexico and the United States.&nbsp;</span></p> <p><span style="font-size:16px;">Anita was well-traveled. She lived in Jalisco Mexico, St. Paul Minnesota, Hawaii, Chihuahua Mexico; and settled on a farm North of Wheaton, MN.&nbsp;</span></p> <p><span style="font-size:16px;">Anita had a brilliant mind; when she was in middle school she was advanced a grade level, and when she was in high school, she again was advanced a grade level.&nbsp; She continued a lifelong love for learning and education. She attended a Montessori school for gifted and talented students and graduated early at the age of 16.&nbsp;</span></p> <p><span style="font-size:16px;">Anita first attended college at Inver Hills Community College, where she studied psychology. She also attended Alexandria Technical and Community College, Minnesota State and Technical College for health care and nursing.&nbsp;</span></p> <p><span style="font-size: 16px;">Anita was acknowledged throughout her life as a disciplined and hard-working&nbsp;woman. Whether it was working fields in Mexico, being a foster parent, a manager at Schiltz food, or nurse at Traverse Care Center, she excelled at her job. Anita brought a shining smile and personality that warmed many who knew her.&nbsp;</span></p> <p><span style="font-size: 16px;">From an early age, being a mother was at the core of Anita&#39;s heart and spirit. She had four children who she cherished. Her children are Alishia Couillard 30,&nbsp;Aurelio Lara-Ruiz 25, Javier Lara-Ruiz (Inkpa Mani) 24, and Xitlalymariadelapaz (Paz) Lara-Ruiz 22. &nbsp; At the age of only 18, Anita became the youngest foster parent in Minnesota. She had many foster kids who she helped raise.</span></p> <p><span style="font-size:16px;">Anita&rsquo;s immediate family continues with her four children: Alishia Couillard (of Alexandria), Aurelio Lara-Ruiz (of Long Prairie, MN), Xitlalymariadelapaz (Paz) Lara-Ruiz (of Wheaton, MN), Javier Lara-Ruiz (Inkpa Mani [of Wheaton, MN]), and his daughter (her granddaughter) Wachazizisapa Whitecloud (also of Wheaton, MN), her brothers Jeremy Lindell and James (Jimmy) Lindell.&nbsp; Anita had a love of nature and animals and maintained a small hobby farm with her children that included: ducks, chickens, guineas, goats, pigs, rabbits, cats, and some wild animals.&nbsp;&nbsp;</span></p> <p><span style="font-size:16px;">&nbsp;Anita was proud of her children and she was the thread that kept the children together after moving out on their own. An example of Anita&rsquo;s parenting can be seen through her support of her children&rsquo;s diverse interests, academic accomplishments, and successes.&nbsp;</span></p> <p><span style="font-size:16px;">Anita is also known for her dedication to the Native American way of life and spirituality.&nbsp; She&nbsp;took great pride in her participation with ceremonies such as the Sun Dance and Matachines.&nbsp;</span></p> <p><span style="font-size:16px;">Anita was a dedicated mother first and foremost. She treasured her children and embraced every moment with them. She especially loved her recent role as a grandmother.&nbsp;&nbsp;</span></p>
December 31, 1975 - January 11, 202212/31/197501/11/2022
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Deb
January 16, 2022
So sorry to hear Anita passed. She had such a loving and giving heart and personality and shared willingly. She will be missed. God bless your family as you go through this journey.
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January 16, 2022
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Aunt Kathleen Neinstadt
January 15, 2022
Anita meant so much to me. When her parents were expecting her they lived with my family for a short while. Then they lived close to me for a year. Anita was such a delight to me. I always loved her dearly. I spent time with her throughout her childhood. Those adorable l... Continue Reading
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Ms. Frafford-Olson
January 15, 2022
To Anita's family - I am so sorry for the loss of your mother. Your mother's character was shown in the wonderful children she raised. May God's peace and comfort be with each one of you.
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Susan Wilts
January 15, 2022
So sorry to hear of Anitas passing. She was such a wonderful person and was always there for my parents when they were in the care center in Wheaton. May she Rest In Peace. My sympathies to her family.
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Rena Hopkins
January 15, 2022
With heartfelt condolences and deepest sympathy
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The staff at Bainbridge Funeral Home-Wheaton Location
January 15, 2022
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