Scotta Frances Barsella Durham, North Carolina Obituary

Scotta Frances Barsella

<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Scotta Frances Barsella</strong></p> <p style="text-align: center;"><strong>1939-2020</strong></p> <p>Scotta Barsella, age 81, passed away peacefully on September 16 at home in Durham, North Carolina.&nbsp; Scotta was born on August 26, 1939 in New York City.&nbsp; She was the youngest child of Charles Barsella and Annie (Perkins) Barsella and sister to Martha, Charles, King, Christine and Peggy.&nbsp; Scotta grew up in Harlem.&nbsp; She attended Julia Richman High School and Howard University, where she studied and exceled at visual art.&nbsp;</p> <p>Scotta met William Edward (&ldquo;Sonny&rdquo;) Tymas in her sophomore year at Howard and they married in New York City on June 21, 1959.&nbsp; The young couple returned to Washington, DC to raise a family, before eventually moving to Reston, Virginia.&nbsp; Scotta left her studies temporarily to raise her two children, Baron and Whitney. &nbsp;She was a homemaker during her kids&rsquo; early years and devoted herself to this role with passion.&nbsp; Inside the home, she created a warm and sheltering space of food, books, music, tenderness, and acceptance. Outside, she gently propelled her kids to explore a kaleidoscope of unlikely cultural, political, and educational experiences.</p> <p>With her children in their late teens, Scotta entered the workforce.&nbsp; In an era of rapid technological innovation, Scotta took a job at Honeywell Corporation as a data entry technician and, through her keen intellect and aggressive pursuit of on-the-job training, she rose through the ranks to earn Top Secret clearances, the title of Senior Systems Analyst, and assignments on major defense contracts.&nbsp; She was a respected colleague, mentor, and role model to many.&nbsp; And she in turn loved and respected the trailblazers with whom she worked. Scotta took well-deserved pride in her accomplishments and savored the independence that her labors provided.</p> <p>In 1994, Scotta became a grandmother.&nbsp; Two years later, she earned her college degree from National Louis University.&nbsp; A few years later, she and Sonny retired and moved to Richmond, VA to be closer to family.&nbsp; Much to Whitney&rsquo;s delight, they bought a house just a block away.&nbsp; Scotta was intimately involved in the lives of her granddaughters, Dylan and Lila.&nbsp; Twelve years later, Scotta and Sonny moved to Durham, NC, less than a mile from Baron, her daughter in law, Laura, and her two grandsons, Elias and Jesse.&nbsp; What a gift that all four grandchildren really knew their grandma, and that she knew them. Likewise, it was a gift to Baron and Whitney, as parents, to have had their mother&rsquo;s wisdom and constant support.</p> <p>Scotta was an energetic lover of life.&nbsp; During her years in Richmond, she made many friends and was loved by her neighbors, fellow exercise enthusiasts, and colleagues at the Virginia Museum of Fine Arts, where she worked part-time. &nbsp;An artist at heart, Scotta took an interest in photography and graphic design and eventually displayed her art publicly in Richmond. &nbsp;She was also politically active. A volunteer coordinator for the 2008 Obama campaign, Scotta contributed her time almost daily in the months leading up to this historic election.&nbsp; In Durham, Scotta was a fixture in the jazz community, encouraging many young musicians and supporting her favorite radio station, WNCU.&nbsp; As she entered her 80&rsquo;s, Scotta was still walking miles a day at a rapid clip, practicing Zumba and Tai chi, caring for gorgeous plants and flowers and making friends throughout her new hometown.&nbsp; Scotta was a member of Epworth Methodist Church.&nbsp; There, she participated in worship services and actively took part in the church&rsquo;s social justice initiatives.</p> <p>Each person is unique; yet some, like Scotta, are so filled with love, sensitivity and kindness that they radiate a brightness &ndash; an unmistakable glow -- and we cannot help but notice them.&nbsp; They invite our hearts to smile.&nbsp; Scotta is survived by her son, Baron, daughter, Whitney, grandchildren, Dylan, Lila, Elias and Jesse, daughter-in-law, Laura, son-in-law Rob, sister-in-law Jean, nieces and nephews whom she adored, and a multitude of friends from each stage of her beautiful life.&nbsp; We will carry within us her enduring light and love.&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p>
August 26, 1939 - September 16, 202008/26/193909/16/2020
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Mary Baumann
October 31, 2020
I knew Scotta from our days working at Honeywell together. Since then we kept in touch infrequently over the phone. She was a dear, caring person who loved her family, gave wise advice, and always made you feel special. Her friendship was a true blessing. I will miss you... Continue Reading
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Julie Kistler
October 20, 2020
Scotta was a loving consistent friend over many years. She will be very much missed. My heart goes out to the whole family and I will pray for their comfort, knowing that Scotta loved the Lord and is laughing, sharing a cup of Yogi tea with Jesus while jazz played in the... Continue Reading
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Delaina Martinez
October 20, 2020
I checked in on Ms. Barsella today, and saw condolence messages.  I am sad to hear that we have lost this lovely lady.  I have known you and your family for most of my life since we all first met in Reston, VA.  You will be missed, and both you and Sonny were very much l... Continue Reading
A candle was posted for Scotta Frances Barsella.
A candle was posted for Scotta Frances Barsella.
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Delaina De Gree Martinez
October 20, 2020
Family times in at the Jefferson Memorial
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Sarah Williams
October 9, 2020
Thank you to Whitney and Baron and the rest of the family for sharing these beautiful remembrances with those of us who didn't have the opportunity to know Scotta.  From working with Whitney, I know the fruit from the seeds your mother planted and see how all the importa... Continue Reading
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Leo Farmer
October 8, 2020
I enjoyed meeting your parents and shall plant a perennials flower in my garden in their memory. I will share more later.
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Rick Pleasants
October 7, 2020
I had the honor and privilege of hiring Scotta at the Virginia Museum of Fine Arts in 2014. She immediately became our most valued employee. Her bright smile and welcoming demeanor were her hallmarks. All of us at VMFA are better servants for having been blessed by her f... Continue Reading
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Mary Catherine McSpadden
September 21, 2020
Scotta was my dear friend -- a lovely lady whom I will never forget. Prayers for her son and daughter and all her family!
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Liz Petersen
September 18, 2020
I love the way Scotta lived her life - as though each moment was an adventure! She attended my water aerobics class, and we shared a love for the water, and an 'exquisite' (her word) taste in music. I am so happy to have been her friend, if only for a short time. Rest in... Continue Reading
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Jeanne Johns Adkins
September 17, 2020
I was so blessed first of all to be Scotta's friend and that she allowed me to share her journey. We had such wonderful conversations and I sensed from several messages that the end was near. Joy will always love you Merry.