Patricia Toland Somerset, New Jersey Obituary

Patricia Toland

Patricia A. Toland from Somerset died peacefully on 23 May. She was 87 years old and has been reunited with her husband, Donald Toland. One of eight children, she was born in Altoona, Pennsylvania before her family moved to Philadelphia. She met her husband while working as a telephone operator at Dun & Bradstreet. She & Don were married in 1956 and proceeded to have six children and six grandchildren. Throughout her life, her focus was always on her family and her faith. After getting married, she lived in Upper Darby and Drexel Hill, PA, Charlotte, NC and Wilmington, DE before moving to Somerset in 1978. She was very involved with St. Matthias Church. She served as a Eucharist minister for many years delivering communion to those at home and at Saint Peter’s Hospital. She participated in the Adult Choir and was active in numerous committees. She loved helping young mothers by watching their children as part of the Mom’s & Tot program. She was involved with the St. Matthias carnival since its inception in 1985 to 2007 partnering with Don as he served as the carnival chairperson. She was very committed to her family. She enjoyed many family vacations to the Outer Banks, trips to Disney World, reading, having her regular glass of Coca-Cola and her nightly serving of Chocolate Ice Cream. Everybody would look forward to her Whoopie Pies at family events. She is survived by her six children: Susan McGill of Philadelphia and her son Brian; Joseph Toland of Chelsea, MI; Ann Nestvogel of Denver, NC with her son Kevin, daughter Debbie, and her husband Webber Crowell; Mary Rehus and her husband Joseph of Morris Plains with their children Kaitlyn and Jamie; Dan Toland and his wife Betsy of Hillsborough with their son Kyle; Barbara Toland of Somerset; and her sister-in-law Sister Marita Donald IHM of Philadelphia. She is also survived by large extended family of nieces, nephews, grand nieces & grand nephews. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the Midland Foundation, 94 Readington Rd, North Branch, NJ 08876.
May 23, 202005/23/2020
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Phil Gartlan
May 27, 2020
Dear Barbara and Family,
I am so sorry to hear of your Mom’s passing. I have fond memories of seeing her and your Dad at Midland fund raising events and functions.
Your Mom lead a life of service to her family and the community and I know you were very proud of her as s...
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Brian Sr
May 27, 2020
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Carla Masciocchi Messikomer
May 26, 2020
Dear Brian Jr,

I understand from your Dad that your grandmother was a lovely woman. Devoted grandparents are one of life's great blessings--so much love and joy, and often, pure fun flowing in both directions. Keep her close in thought and prayer...she will live on t...
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THe McGill Siblings
May 26, 2020
Afterglow
I’d like the memory of me to be a happy one.
I’d like to leave an afterglow of smiles when life is done.
I’d like to leave an echo whispering softly down the ways,
Of happy times and laughing times and bright and sunny days.
I’d like the tears of those who...
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Deacon Ron
May 26, 2020
I am so sorry for your the loss of your mom. I hope and pray that in your sorry you can remember all the joyful times you had with her.
It has been a while since I last you Pat and Barbara at Mass and I am glad I had a chance then to meet with her.Your dad and mom are ...
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PETER PHILLIPS
May 26, 2020
Dear Mary and Barbara, I was very sorry to hear of your Moms passing. Please know that Judy and I will always keep you in our hearts and minds at this time of sorrow.
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Maggie Groch
May 26, 2020
My heart and prayers have been with all of you. In my minds eye I see Patty as such an upbeat and positive person. I think of her as one of my most admired people. We will all miss her deeply. Give my love to all.
Love, Maggie
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Peggy Lefkin
May 26, 2020
Dan and Family,
I am so very sorry to hear of your mom's passing. Keeping you all in my prayers.
Peggy
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Donna McClelland
May 26, 2020
Dear Dan, I am sorry to learn of the
passing of your mom. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family.
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Brian Sr
May 25, 2020