Memorial Trees
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Sharon R. Shannon, His Eldest Sister
January 13, 2026
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Anonymous
January 10, 2026
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Justin, Jamie, Fiona, Rhys & Fox
January 10, 2026
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Tommy Scifres
January 09, 2026
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Patrick and Terri Roethlinger
January 09, 2026
Memorial trees planted for:
Paul Werner Roethlinger, Jr.
<p><p>Paul Werner Roethlinger, Jr., 72, passed away peacefully at his home surrounded by loved ones</p><p>on January 4, 2026. He was a beloved husband, father, grandfather, and man of deep faith whose</p><p>life was marked by music, devotion to his family, friends, and service to others. He was born on</p><p>June 3, 1953, to the late Paul (Pat) Werner Roethlinger, Sr. and late Mattie Anne Cuddington</p><p>Roethlinger of Wilmington, NC.</p><p><br></p><p>Paul grew up in coastal Wilmington, NC and graduated from New Hanover High School in 1971.</p><p>As a child, Paul enjoyed fishing and camping with family often frying the day’s catch for dinner.</p><p>When Paul was 14 years old, his father bought him his first guitar and quickly realized Paul had</p><p>talent after going to see him perform at the local pizza joint where he played for tips. This self-</p><p>taught musician and vocalist grew to become a gifted and respected member of several bands in</p><p>the 1970s and ’80s, the most notable of which were Sidewinder, Secondwind, Creekwood, and</p><p>Choice. Music remained a lifelong calling for Paul, ultimately becoming an extension of his</p><p>faith. He was a longtime, active member at Mount Pisgah Church where he served on various</p><p>committees, but his passion was working as a well-loved counselor for the Whobodies youth</p><p>group for 13 years. Paul taught young people how to worship God through music, and he toured</p><p>with them as they traveled sharing the gospel through musical productions. Additionally, he</p><p>served as a committed worship leader at the church where his heart for worship, extraordinary</p><p>musical talents, and his steady presence touched countless lives. His faith was strong and</p><p>unwavering, guiding how he lived, loved, and served those around him. He never met a stranger</p><p>and had an uncanny ability to make anyone feel completely at ease.</p><p><br></p><p>Paul completed an Associates degree in Business Administration at Cape Fear Community</p><p>College and all courses for the Institute of Real Estate Management (IREM) CPM designation.</p><p>His professional career started in property management as a leasing agent. Through quick</p><p>promotion, Paul rose to his final role as Executive Vice President for Sunchase American. Paul</p><p>also served on the Board of Directors for the Triad Apartment Association of North Carolina. His</p><p>accomplishments were many, but his favorite project was the major rehabilitation of a 125-year-</p><p>old mill. The historic mill project (Morganton Trading Company) received several awards for</p><p>Best Adaptive Re-use and currently houses the city offices of Morganton, NC, and residential</p><p>units.</p><p><br></p><p>Paul was a devoted family man who found his greatest joy in those he loved most, especially</p><p>Connie, his wife of 51 years. His face truly lit up in the presence of his children and</p><p>grandchildren. His talent and love for music was passed on to his children and was always the</p><p>center of their lives. No family gathering felt complete without Paul picking up his guitar and</p><p>singing “Rocky Raccoon.” Paul’s favorite hobbies included golfing, hiking, and fireside chats</p><p>sipping the finest Scotch. His humor was well-timed, his laughter was contagious, and his love</p><p>was faithful. Paul cherished his role as a husband, father, and grandfather, and his legacy lives on</p><p>through the generations he loved so deeply.</p><p><br></p><p>Among those left to cherish Paul’s memory are his wife, Constance “Connie” Roethlinger; his</p><p>daughter, Candice Roethlinger Zaragoza, husband Javier, and their daughter, Sophia; and, his</p><p>son, Erik Roethlinger, wife Sarah, and their children, Vera and Parker. He is also survived by</p><p>four siblings and three siblings-in-law: Sharon Shannon (Robert), Kathryn Swart (Michael),</p><p>Philip Roethlinger, and Patrick Roethlinger (Terri); sister-in-law Mary Elizabeth “Liz” Poythress;</p><p>brothers-in-law David Poythress II (Nancy) and Scott Poythress (Robin); and numerous nieces,</p><p>nephews, cousins, and friends.</p><p><br></p><p>Paul will be remembered for his warm and welcoming spirit and steadfast faith, his sharp</p><p>intellect, his gift of music, and the quiet strength with which he walked through life. His example</p><p>of worship, love, and devotion will continue to resonate in the hearts of all who knew him.</p><p><br></p><p>A Celebration of Life service will be held at Mount Pisgah Church on Saturday, January 31st at</p><p>2pm.</p><p><br></p><p>In lieu of flowers, please consider sending a donation in memory of Paul Roethlinger to the</p><p>following organizations:</p><p><br></p><p>Mount Pisgah Church</p><p>2600 Pisgah Church Rd.</p><p>Greensboro, NC 27455</p><p>mypisgah.church</p><p><br></p><p>Glioblastoma Foundation</p><p>glioblastomafoundation.org</p></p>June 3, 1953 - January 4, 202606/03/195301/04/2026
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